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Resources
The following are a selection of texts and clips, which have been recommended as useful for processing and integrating personal experiences relevant to a history of connection to Centrepoint.
Written Resources
Kim McGregor, Chief Victims Advisor, has written a practical and compassionate guide for adult survivors of sexual abuse.
An examination of the dynamics of exploitative persuasion and counselling needs. Barri Leslie 2000
Cultish
Amanda Montell is a linguist, with a father who left a cult. She explores the different ways cults create their tribe, focusing on the use of the language of insiders and outsiders. A fascinating examination of this critical aspect of coercive control. An easy and light hearted, though thought provoking read
A book about the two most important words in the English language - I’m sorry - and why it is so hard for many people to say them.
Growing up in a cult, getting out, and starting over. Interviews were with 65 children born or raised in cults all over the world.
Clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable.
This book by Janja Lalich & Madeleine Tobias explores the seductive draw that leads people into cults, provides guidelines for assessing what happened, and tools for getting back on track.
Difficult Conversations
From the writers behind the Harvard Negation Project comes this little book filed with tips about how to have those very hard conversations without the whole thing dissolving into chaos. Centrepoint kids have a lot of hard conversations to have with the people who let them down, and this little book might help.
ICSA provides information, education, and help to those adversely affected by or interested in cultic and other high-control groups and relationships.
Video Resources
Dr Harris outlines how childhood trauma affects a person across their whole life-span.
Fire-Brown discuss how she turned a childhood of abuse and tragedy into triumph and advocacy.
Harriet talks about the power of apologies, and how we can respond to serial non-apologisers.
Dr Gabor Mate gives a new vision of a society which understands how trauma shapes people.
Audio Resources
Join Caz, Liz and Lindy as they unpack the cult-play book and examine harmful groups in NZ.
Sarah and Nippy interview survivors of cults and experts in all things culty, in this podcast series about getting out.
IndoctriNation
Rachel Bernstein is a therapist with 30 years experience in cult recovery. This podcast is a resource for survivors who want to understand.